Allah states:
“Those whom believe pay attention: Revere Allah and speak a Straight-Word.”
(Noble-Qur’ān: Chpt.33, V.70)
Muhammad (Peace be upon them) stated:
“Always speak Truth, even if it’s bitter (even if it rubs People the Wrong-Way).”
(ibn-Hibbān&al-Bayhaqī)
Yeah, this is definitely a Risālah/Article that’ll probably get Gareth Bryant Fake-Cancelled…lol
The Nature-Of-Woman
Allah tells us that Women are a Fitnah/Test for Men. Muhammad warned that Women are the Greatest-Fitnah for Men. Amongst the Main-Reasons how/why this is so: Women don’t listen. Albeit though: there’s Multiple-Reasons how/why Women don’t listen to Men.
(Noble-Qur’ān: Chpt.64, V.14-18; al-Bukhārī&Muslim)
What causes Women to not listen though?!!!
It’s always about Respect:
Men whom Women unrespect/disrespect are never obeyed.
Women respect Men, for Various-Reasons…even Reasons which don’t make no Damn-Sense, and/or are honestly Self-Destructive. Now, as per the Types/Kinds of Men whom’re respected by Women: it equally depends on which Type/Kind of Man one is comfortable being. Each and every Man must conclude which Man they’ll ultimately be that Women will respond to and respect. Unfortunately, it’s very easy to lose a Woman’s-Respect…especially during Modern-Times.
Kinds/Types of Men:
The Father-Figure
(The Traditional/Patriarchal-Man)
This is the Man who’s an All-Around Solid-Dude: Intelligent, Spiritual, Principled, Integral, Moral, Non-Judgmental, Protective, Provisional, Strong, Powerful, Kind, Gentle, Educator, Leader, Advisor, etc. But, don’t get Shit Fucked-Up…don’t ever try to push This-Man’s Buttons: they’re really one o dem Guys. Attempting to manipulate, trigger, use, such a Man is 💯%-Stupidity. And, Men like them will cut you off via 0-Hesitation if you try to play in they Face.
Disobedience-Tolerance: 1-5%
The Boy-Toy
(The Live-In Porn-Star)
This-Nigga is a Bum. Dude has nowhere to stay on their own. They’ve 0-Pride/Prejudice: they’ll Fuck any Human Female, just to keep a Roof over their Head. But, ironically, these’re the Guys whom audaciously/arrogantly expect to be treated as Men by Women. Yet, all they’ve to offer any Woman is Mail-Man Dick. They really think/feel their Dick-Size is the Only-Currency necessary to keep a Woman.
Disobedience-Tolerance: 50%
The Door-Mat
(“The Nice-Guy”)
This-Nigga is All-Types/Kinds of Simpalicious. Their Masculinity, Self-Esteem is Highly-Questionable. Their Idea of being a “Real-Man” is having Women Run-a-Muck, and let them do whatever they want to do…including disrespecting them.
Disobedience-Tolerance: 70-90%
The Human-ATM/The Sponsor
(The Trick who thinks they’re a “Baller”)
Most-Men whom fall under This-Category are Dudes whom’re so Pathologically-Shallow via whatever Monies they have or think they have. They’ve literally bought into their own Publicity, as this so-called Baller. The Irony is that Most Real-Ballers with Real-Monies don’t waste their Monies on Buyin-Pussy: Real-Ballers purchase Power to comtrol Persons, Places, Things, Concepts, Ideas, etc. These’re amongst the Easiest-Men Women are capable/able of manipulating. Once any Woman know how how easy it is to get Money out of a Man: it’s literally Game-Over…they will use ypu indefinitely.
Disobedience-Tolerance: 💯%
The Tyrant
(The Domestic-Abuser)
The 1st-Sign of Resistence to their “Authority”: they whippin yo Ass. They do this, because they know how Weak they are…the Womem their with either ignore it or don’t directly realize it. I’m referring to Primal/Physiological-Weakness: I’m talking about Spiritual/Moral-Weakness. Men whom Beat-Up Women are Pathetic-Infividuals. Albeit typically: it doesn’t always begin with Hands&Feet…it very often begins with Spiritual/Psycho-Emotional Abuse beforehand. Firstly, there’s Self-Esteem Attacks. Then, there’s Social-Alienation/Isolation from Others. Then, as well, Manipulation plays a Factor. Abusers abuse Others exclusively to compensate how lowly they truly are themselves.
Disobedience-Tolerance: 0%
All these Kinds/Types of Men have a Common-Denominator in common: there’s Some-Woman out here who’s going to choose one of them and/or will end-up choosing some/all of these Kinds/Types of Men during the Course of their Mundane-Life. And, like I’ve known for a very Long-Time: Women instinctively know what Type/Kind of Man a Man truly is. Women will never choose Men based upon how a Man thinks/feels they are. Oh, No…Beloved: Mdn are always chosen by Women based upon whom they truly are. I’ll add to this: Many-Men end-up being more than 1-Type/Kind of Man, exclusively depending on the Women they end-up with. It’s a Known-Fact that Certain-Women can bring-out Certain-Charcteristics/Qualities, in a Man, which Many-Men either have tried to conceal or honestly never knew they even had.
Different-Types/Kinds of Women will respond to the Aforementioned-Types/Kinds of Men, and will either show them Respect or not. Now, as Men, as per what I’ve aforementioned…relative to the Types/Kinds of Women whom gravitate towards Certain-Types/Kinds of Men:
Number-1
What Type/Kind of Man do I want to be?!!!
Number-2
What Type/Kind of Man must/should I be?!!!
Number-3
What Types/Kinds of Women do I even want in my Life?!!!
Number-4
Why’re these even the Types/Kinds of Women I want in my Life?!!!
The Fact-Of-The-Matter is this
It’s literally impossible for any Woman to listen to everything a Man says. It’s literally Morally-Unintelligent for to dare expect for Women to listen to everything a Man says All-The-Time. As, Men, one must decide what they’re actually built for. Meaning, a Man must recognize/accept their True-Selves and come to Terms with what Types/Kinds of Disobedience their willing/going to tolerate or not. It’s upon every Man to figure that out independently, exclusively for their own Selves. And, it’s just as Allah states:
“Those whom believe pay attention: Upon you are yourselves.”
(Noble-Qur’ān: Chpt.5, V.105)
May Allah replace your Hardship with Ease…
…cause These-Broads b Wildin outchea.
Gareth Bryant
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