Muhammad (Peace be upon them) stated: “Always speak Truth, even if it’s bitter (even if it rubs People the Wrong-Way).”.
(ibn-Hibbān, al-Bayhaqī)
I’ve had Convos about the Aforementioned-Pic to Countless-Persons, both privately & publicly. Men & Women alike…I’ve detailed the Reality, Truth, Honesty, etc. via This-Pic. Lots of People, Women especially, are uncomfortable with this. But, in spite of their Discomfort/Uncomfortability, I still say what I say. I’ve always mentioned to Women whom I converse with, regarding This-Subject: every Woman categorizes Men via either of Those-Categories. It’s done either subconsciously, consciously, or both. This Zone-Categorization occurs with any/all Men in a Woman’s-Life. It can even occur within the 1st 5mins. of a Woman having a Convo with any Man. It can even occur via a 1-Time Interaction, without any Man or Woman ever interacting again afterwards.
In Order from Lowest2Highest:
Emotional Side-Nigga Zone
This is the Man whom Women use to tell damn near everything, if not everything about their Personal-Lives. They tell These-Men who they’re dealing with sexually and any/all of their Sexual-Relationships. Men like them will never get to Women whom place them in That-Category. Men like them are literally used/manipulated as the Male-Versions of a Woman’s-Girlfriends.
Relative-Zone
This is the Man whom Women say that they view them as a: Father-Figure, Brother, Son, etc. Men like them gets 0-Play from Women who impose This-Category upon them.
Friend-Zone
This-Zone is actually the Most-Complex/Complicated amongst all the Other-Categories. If/whenever any Man is placed in This-Category they can still score. It ends-up being a 50/50, as per whether they can get the Woman or not. This of course exclusively depends upon the Holistic-Friendship between the Man & the Woman.
Fuckable-Zone
Very straighforward…any Man via This-Category is exclusively viewed by Women as a Sexual-Object. Once you’re on any Woman’s Sexual-Radar, their Agenda is for you to have them in Harām-Sajdah/Prostration: Face-Down/Ass-Up. Men like this exude Sexual-Energy, which directly complements what Women are attracted to naturally/organically.
Relationship-Zone
This-Category pertains to a Woman envisioning a Man to be a Life-Partner, having a Long-Term Relationship witj them, the Potential-Father of their Children/being the Potential-Mother of their Children, Marriage, etc.
All-Women do this…it doesn’t matter what Religion they are, what Ethnicity they are, what Culture they are, what Languages they speak, what Relationship-Status they have, what Sexual-Orientation/Preference they pontificate/claim, what Countries/Global-Regions they come from, what Socio-Economic Backgrounds they come from, etc. This is simply something which is an Overt/Covert-Sifah (Manifestation) of Human-Nature. These-Categories are expectedly very triggering, for both Men & Women alike…it’s something which has People bothered. Clearly, Certain-Women will in fact disagree with me about this…and so will Certain-Men. I can live with that because: a. I actually respect People whom disagree with me. b. Disagreeing with someone doesn’t automatically make them Wrong, just like agreeing with someone doesn’t automatically make them Right.
The Reason how/why it’s utterly important for Men to know how Women categorize Men: it’s makes the Lives of Men less stressful, when it comes to Male-Female Sexual-Relationships. More importantly, it tests the Human-Male Ego, as per how fragile it is individually. Each Man has probably had Egotistical-Moments when Women were able to scar, fracture, break their Egos. I always say that the Human-Male Ego is the Most-Fragile Thing Allah ever allowed to exists…a Spider’s-Web is stronger than the Human-Male Ego. It’s natural/normal via Human-Nature. This plays directly into Certain-Men honestly not even knowing enough about themselves, to even introspect on what makes them attractive/marketable. So/too many Men don’t manifest as-Sihah/Authenticity.
And, because of that, they mask themselves: perpetrating Pseudo-Narratives concerning themselves. Women can see directly through Male-Facades. It’s because Women view Sexuality as 90% Psycho-Emotional & only 10%-Primal. Men view Sexuality as 90%-Primal & only 10% Psycho-Emotional. As per These-Facts: Men are substancially disadvantaged, when it comes to seeing a Woman for whom they truly are. It really doesn’t take much Work a Woman to see what a Man masks. This is precisely how/why I always tell People: Men pursue Women…Women choose Men. Men go after the Women they know they want, while Women pick the Men they think/feel they want.
Men…take Notes: these are Things which People will be afraid to tell you. But, I’m going to tell it all. These-Types/Kinds of Issues are essential for Men, to actually know where/how they Stand via their Pursuits of Women. Now, obviously no Woman will tell Men this. So, it takes a Man to do so…I’m That-Guy. You’ll thank me for this…trust me.
Gareth Bryant 1444, A.H./2023, C.E.
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