Gareth Bryant Writes

Allah states: “Those whom believe pay attention: Upon you are yourselves.”.
(Noble-Qur’ān: Chpt.5, V.105)

We’re all Islāmically-Mandated, by Allah, to commit ourselves to Hifzh-in-Nafs/Self-Care. Attaining as-Sa`ādah/Happiness is a Major-Component to Hifzh-in-Nafs. It’s vital to our Human-Sustainability. And, because of That-Fact, it will never look or be the same for every Person. Every Individual-Human must introspectively tap into ourselves, to determine for ourselves, pertaining to what makes us happy. No one is responsible for our Happiness, except ourselves. But, sadly, we as Humans really audaciously expect Others to “make” us happy & that’s literally an Impossible-Endeavor. Whenever we attempt to impose the Responsibility of making ourselves happy upon Others it always backfires & will always backfire.